Sunday, September 21, 2008

Exciting and New

Having a disease like MS, with probable disability in your future makes you think about a few things. I spent the first 5 years since my diagnosis and just maintained a blissful ignorance...today I sit in a flare-up that is now in week 8 and I still am weak, can't walk well etc... Lesson Learned.

However, upon all this it is making me thing about what I really want to do in life. What do I want to see, where do I want to go, what do I want to do...what does my future hold. How can I overcome fears and just live? I want to hold my soon to be hubby's hand while watching the sunrise over the ocean. I want to sit under the stars with him at a campfire on a beach. I want to see Europe and experience other cultures. Maybe learn a language. Go back to school. Most of all I want to feel like a contributing member of society again. I have been off work since April, mostly due to cognitive issues and stress effecting my MS. However, now I'm done...being bored, feeling holed up in my home. I need overcome these obstacles thrown at me and rise above.

It's time...I'm about to get to it. Kinda hard to say when I can barely walk or do anything requiring great energy, however, this week...this week I will incorporate something exciting and new. I hope you do as well.

2 comments:

Jen said...

Do it, Lanette. Find something that isn't too physically demanding and try to get out. It stinks being laid up with MS, and any venture out into the world is a victory. I know I'm a big cornball, but I do know how important it is to have goals and dreams despite MS. It keeps a person in the game.

Let us know what your new adventure turns out to be. Here's hoping your MS subsides a bit....

Jen

Unknown said...

Yay! I love adventures. Can't wait to hear about yours.

S.