That title sounds very selfish I know. However, I am the complete opposite of that and always put everyone else's needs before my own. Which has left me needing to put myself and my needs, wants and desires for my future first. I will fly across the country to help a family member or a friend in need, however, i know that I would never get such care in return. So tonight hubby and I decided we shall put our needs first only. We have too, because, no one else will do it for us. We are just too caring and nice sometimes and will spend all our spare time, money and energy doing things for others. That has left us with nothing. So, as of 2009 we put us first. :)
Hubby started going to the gym today, I plan to start tomorrow. I had a real bad night tonight (It's 3am) with Leg Spasms so I am wide awake and it is just a reminder that I need to loose weight, and improve my flexibility and strength. So tomorrow to the gym.
Next, I need to find a job that I can do without zapping all my energy and just killing myself and my spirit. We need the cash. I need the mental challenge. I also need to find something new that is going to keep me interested. In today's economy it's hard not to just rely on my 10+ years of IT experience and stay in that field. However, I want more. Just not sure what that is...
I did my taxes and was SHOCKED to find out that with 12+ K in Medical Expenses last year I only get $800 back for that (on top of my other refund). That stinks! I would have thought I'd get more than that back. They want everyone to have Medical Benefits, but, when it comes to assisting with paying for the expenses you get nada. Nice.
Hubs and I are still throwing around the idea of moving somewhere else as TN is boring us lately, but, we can't commit to moving either. Have to wait and see how this summer goes and how I can or can't handle the heat. I want to know now. I'm impatient.
I wish I had some trip to look forward to, alas, right now I do not. Hopefully in a few months.
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6 comments:
GOOD! Let it be about YOU for a change (I'm all for that right now..)
Lanette-- if you find a career that pays good money that can be done from home and can accomodate relapses, would you please let me know? Boy I could sure use the money myself! LOL
Have a good beginning of February....
Re: Taxes - don't forget the mileage and parking fees to doctor appointments and hospitals for deductions.
I know it stinks that we don't get much back with alllll those deductions, but I figure it is something at least.
Take care,
Anne
PS I get by with mini vacations (like a Friday or Saturday overnight) or a day trip by car to hold me over until the real vacation. Treat yourself.
Lanette,
I 2nd Jen. Good!! It should be about YOU for a change.
I hope that you and the hubby are able to find a location you enjoy and that you are able to develop a 2nd career which is challenging and inspires you.
All good things.
it is way past time to put yourselves first. it's all about you and your life and what's best for you. i'm glad that you see that and are heading for it.
Hi Jen:
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Robert
It should be about you! Great idea to consciously do this. I always put others needs in front of mine and I need to STOP!!
I got screwed on the medical expenses also, but I didn't have quite as much as you. Things need to change.
Take care!
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